June 1, 2015 – The Jewish Week
When Lani Santo was 13 and living with her Modern Orthodox family in the increasingly black-hat neighborhood of Kew Gardens, her mother came out as gay.
‘œI couldn’t tell anyone or be my authentic self because I had the understanding that everyone was basically the same … even in the Modern Orthodox world,’ she said.
Now, as executive director of Footsteps, an organization that helps Jews leaving black hat and chasidic communities, the experience resonates.
‘œAlthough I didn’t come from a charedi background, I have a firsthand understanding of some of the challenges that a veil of conformity in a community can do to an individual’s self-actualization, becoming who they feel they authentically are,’ said Santo.
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